
Have you ever experienced the overwhelming joy of doing things you love, in a breathtaking place, with people you love?
Last week was exactly like that for me. It was a week of leaning into the connection compass.
Prior, my cup was running empty, drained from the daily grind – work, parenting, the children’s school and sporting commitments. You can probably relate! Plus, in running my business, I often feel like every spare moment should be devoted to work. When I don’t meet that expectation, I end up feeling guilty.
Yet, my inner self was telling me I needed a complete break (no cheeky ticking off to-do list tasks). This inner wisdom correlated with ample research supporting taking holidays with improvements in our physical and emotional health, boosts in creativity, mood and happiness.
The break was incredible and just what I needed – a week and a half filled with connection. We spent quality time with family and good friends, engaging in our shared human desire for social connection. As a family we strengthened our bonds as we road-tripped, relaxed, hiked, dined and played. Of course, having young children there were squabbles and complaints, but overall, the connection was heartwarming.
Our destination was one of Australia’s most beautiful places, possibly even in the world – the breathtaking Blue Mountains. It offered a profound connection with nature, with rich and heightened opportunities to experience nature with all our senses.
Each day, we were left in awe, gazing at the vast landscapes, towering cliffs, and expansive gorges. It was a humbling experience, reminding us that we are part of something much greater than ourselves. The science of awe suggests that our ego self diminishes when we are feeling this way and we feel more kind and generous, more connected.
The chilling cold greeted us at 1000 meters above sea level, allowing us to connect with the elements. Throughout the days, we found ourselves engulfed in mist and clouds, a rare opportunity to feel connected with the sky while our feet were still firmly planted on the ground.
The region is famous for its lyrebird, a remarkable bird with tail feathers resembling an ancient lyre instrument. The lyrebird is also known for mimicking the sounds of other birds, animals, and even humans. Encountering lyrebirds during our journey was truly exhilarating. We marveled as one bird sang the melodies of various other birds – whipbirds, kookaburras, cockatoos, and more.
Plus, I felt a real sense of self- and soul-connection by engaging in activities that bring me joy. Having granted myself permission to relax, I indulged in some of my favourite activities: guilt-free reading, daily walks (even coaxing the children to join a silent walk at the Katoomba Falls night-lit walk) and capturing moments through photography, a cherished hobby. I felt lighter and more energised.
Tears welled with awe and beauty in three breathtaking locations: Barrows Lookout with a hanging swamp and expansive gorge views; Bridal Veil Lookout reminiscent of scenes from an Avatar movie; and a beautiful waterfall along the Undercliff Track. In these moments, I felt part of something greater, connected to the spirit and energy of the place.
Although my cup is full, I now feel a sense of grief that it’s come to an end. This is part of the cycle, though, isn’t it? A period of anticipation, a period of immersion and being, and a period of sadness as the time and experience passes by.
I share these words in the hope it reminds you to take that break you’ve been wishing for. In this world that puts value on busy-ness, we may forget how important it is to stop and be. To connect and love. To be inspired and awed.
Connection Compass acknowledges the Turrbal and Jagara people, the Traditional Custodians of the land on which we work, live, and gather. We pay our respect to Elders past, present and emerging, and draw inspiration from their connection to Country, community and spirit.