
A few weekends ago I had a system reset. For the first time in a long time, I took some time away from the family. I wasn’t all by myself, but I wasn’t with anyone I knew properly either. It was a meeting of 12 beautiful souls of different ages, professions and genders, and together we hiked from one side of K’gari to the other.
On this 4-day trip away, I was without my husband and the children. I didn’t enter the group with a pre-assumed identity or role of wife or mother. Instead, it was an opportunity to just embrace me. It was a chance to spend time doing the things that I love most – being in nature, hiking, meditating, sharing and connecting. It was an awakening of mind, body and spirit, in many ways.
Upon coming back, inner-contemplation has brought up the importance of this system reset; it allowed me to evaluate life and to do things differently. For so many years I had gotten myself into a rhythm that I wanted change, yet wasn’t doing anything radically different to invoke that change. Sure, I was working on my goals daily, but I hadn’t opened myself up for differences. You know that old saying – when you keep doing the same thing, you keep getting the same result.
In the last two weeks, I wouldn’t say that my life has radically changed, but I have set new intentions. I have opened it up to the universe to attract new friends on a higher frequency. The universe has responded, sending a few new connections my way – one in the most unexpected of ways.
I have dyed my hair (not radically, but I can tell), finally booked in for the tattoo I’ve been talking about and have connected with the family in a much more present way. I have jumped at opportunities to go out and play. We went on a family camping trip with our dear, dear friends. My husband and I went on a “date-overnight-hike” while my parents looked after the kids. Each morning I do my nature and dance meditation. I’ve started running and when I finish the run, I strip off and jump in the water for a freezing swim. In short, I am feeling more alive than I have in years and years. My brother came to stay, and we talked in the most free and real way that I can ever remember.
There hasn’t been any chasmic shifts. I haven’t been struck by lightning. I haven’t landed a million-dollar client. I am still in my normal employment. While on the surface it may look like nothing has changed, under the surface – everything has changed. Everything. And I know this is only the beginning.
Tell me, have you experienced a system reset like this? Leave a comment or send me an email or reach out on my socials about how it created shifts in your life. I’d love to hear all about it.
Or, if a system reset is something you’ve been thinking about but haven’t done, and would like some additional support in overcoming blocks about it (if you feel you can’t step away from the family etc), then I invite you to book a one:one coaching call. You are worthy and deserving of a system reset too.
Connection Compass acknowledges the Turrbal and Jagara people, the Traditional Custodians of the land on which we work, live, and gather. We pay our respect to Elders past, present and emerging, and draw inspiration from their connection to Country, community and spirit.